If you landed on this site by mistake welcome aboard, please feel free to take advantage of my opt-in newsletter and free resources at the end of this post! if you intended to be here reading this tells me one thing, that you are on the process of changing something in your life, on the verge of becoming something fantastic. But let me warn you, on the road you are about to take there are several things that you must pay special attention and one of them is fear. Fear loves to steal all your dreams and is a master of it, it can paralyze you physically and mentally. The good news is that fear doesn’t exist. In coaching and NLP, FEAR is an anachronism that stands for
FALSE EVIDENCE APPEAR REAL
but, you may chose to give him another meaning, one that doesn’t cripples you of everything good that you can accomplish, like
FORGET EVERYTHING AND RUN
FACE EVERYTHING AND RISE
One other thing, that is actually a state of mind that you must train yourself to have is “ACT AS IF”, yes, you must act as if you already have the things you want. Do you want a million dollars? act as if, imagine yourself, talk to yourself, represent someone, go be around your goal. Henry Ford once said “Either believe it or not you are always right”.
Believing is seeing! No one is prepared to have something until believing that can have it. Feed your faith and your fears will starve. Every impulses of the mind have the tendency to become it’s physical equivalents.
So the next time you catch yourself having those depressing and pessimist thoughts, I want you to slap yourself in the hand. Do yourself a favor and police your thoughts, think positively and in a positive way and if you have nothing good to say, don’t speak at all.
Not always the road to the finish is a straight line. Success doesn’t need explanations and Failure doesn’t allow excuses. Remember, you are the Caption of your own boat, where do you want to go?